ἀθῡμ-έω G0120
To be discouraged, disheartened, or dejected; to lose heart or become downcast
This verb means to become disheartened, lose courage, or grow despondent. Classical Greek employed it for becoming discouraged in the face of illness or difficulty, or being afraid. Paul uses it in Colossians 3:21 warning fathers not to provoke their children "lest they become discouraged." The concern is that harsh, unreasonable treatment will break a child's spirit, causing them to lose heart and become dejected. The verb captures the interior emotional collapse that comes from feeling overwhelmed, hopeless, or unable to meet impossible standards.
Senses
1. sense 1 — In Colossians 3:21, Paul warns fathers against provoking their children to the point where "they become discouraged." The verb describes the emotional and spiritual deflation that results from excessive harshness or unreasonable demands—children losing heart, becoming dejected, and perhaps giving up trying to please. The concern is for the child's inner state: courage and hope crushed by a parent's severity. 1×
AR["يَيأَسوا"]·ben["তারা-নিরাশ-হয়"]·DE["mutlos-werden"]·EN["they-may-become-discouraged"]·FR["ἀθυμῶσιν"]·heb["יִתְיָאֲשׁוּ"]·HI["वे-निरअश-होन"]·ID["mereka tawar hati"]·IT["athumōsin"]·jav["cilik-ati"]·KO["낙심하지-않도록"]·PT["desanimem"]·RU["унывали"]·ES["se-desanimen"]·SW["kata-tamaa"]·TR["cesareti-kirilsin"]·urd["ہمت-ہاریں"]
Related Senses
G2309 1. want, desire (166×)G0025 1. to love actively (133×)H0157 1. love (verb, active Qal) (129×)H8055 1. Qal: rejoice, be glad (123×)H7453 1. neighbor, fellow man (120×)G0026 1. of love (115×)H1058 1. Qal: to weep, cry (112×)H0954 1. to be ashamed, feel shame (Qal) (95×)H8057 1. joy, gladness, delight (90×)H2781 1. disgrace, shame, dishonor (68×)G2307 1. will, desire, purpose (63×)G5463 1. rejoice, be glad (63×)G0027 1. beloved (61×)H8130 1. Qal: to hate, detest (60×)G5479 1. (59×)G1680 1. (53×)H8130 2. Qal ptcp: hater, enemy (53×)H0014 1. be willing, want (51×)H0157 2. lover, friend (Qal participle substantive) (51×)H1945 1. woe (50×)
BDB / Lexicon Reference
ἀθῡμ-έω, to be disheartened, despond, ἐς νόσον πεσὼν ἀθυμεῖςRefs 5th c.BC+; ἀ τινι. at or for a thing, Refs 5th c.BC+:—to be sore afraid lest, ἀθυμῶ δ᾽ εἰ φανήσομαιRefs 5th c.BC+